Not everyone can be good news to us when we feel sad or disappointed. for example, friend? friends?!
Hmmmm, even if be heard if we speak with them. but I think there are some such attitude. so, we should appreciate the friend or member2 are willing to tell the problem to us rather than vice versa. a friend of mutual help to each other is good for improving the tenuous bonds of real friendship. hehe.
"Good friends will not let us do things that are not obscene to us "